Lesson 15 -
What other people think of you is none of your business.
What other people think of you is none of your business, the only thing that really matters is what you think of yourself, after all you are stuck with yourself 24/7!
Do you ever find that you are asking yourself “What will people think of me?” Many people spend so much time trying to control what other people think of them. But we are all old enough to make our own minds up. We may to influence their decisions but ultimately the choice comes down to them. So why fret over something that you have such little control over.
When you accept that what other people think of you is none of your business you gain freedom.
I am by no means trying to assert that you should not care about other people. I am saying that you should stop caring about what other people THINK of you. They are not the same thing.
Worrying about what others think of you is exhausting; mentally, emotionally, and maybe even physically. It’s a time waster. It’s a drama-creator. But most importantly, it prevents you from being the best version of you.
So, lesson 15 is to stop worrying so much about what other people think and start focussing on what is important and matters to you.